Here's a sentimental little story about a day that started badly and ended well. There's a lesson in here, one I manage to repeatedly unlearn.
My sister-in-law Amy is visiting from Connecticut, along with her 8-year-old son J. It was just J and me the other day, after everyone else went off to job, conference, or school, and I figured we'd hang around the house, he'd play with Legos, I'd do some work, do some cleaning, and wallow in sadness and anxiety over my mother. It's become one of my favorite pastimes.
Right after breakfast, J came into the room and said brightly, "Do you think we can maybe leave the house sometime?"
Tipsy: Sure. What would you like to do?
J: Maybe we could take a walk to, like, an ice cream store?
Child after my own heart. Suddenly the lack of a decent plan for J's day seemed unforgivably lame. His special trip to California and the mopey aunt can't change out of her robe?
So I took him to Chinatown. We went to the live poultry market, the Clarion Music Center, old St. Mary's Cathedral, and the Golden Gate Bakery, where they sell the best warm egg custard tarts.
J did not care for the tart. I always make people try these custard tarts, but they never love them as much as I do.
We rode a cable car, which I have not done in 30 years. I couldn't tell if J thought it was super-cool, or boring, because he was so grave and watchful. I thought it was super-cool. The City has a completely different aspect when you observe it from a side-facing position in an open vehicle. Everyone looks at you like you're a clueless tourist, but jaded San Franciscans who go 30 years without riding the cable car are the clueless ones.
Then we walked to Hang Ah Alley to have lunch at the Hang Ah Tea Room, where my father used to take me when I was a child.
There's something about the feng shui of Hang Ah Alley that's very special. You enter from the middle of a extremely steep and busy Chinatown street, but the alley itself is always calm and quiet. It adjoins a playground, and right next door to the tea room is a mysterious club where elderly Chinese people sit around all day playing mah-jongg. (I thought it was dominoes, but did some research and it seems more likely that they are playing mah-jongg.) If you stand silently you can hear the tiles softly clicking and kids shouting and cars going up and down the hill and it's really nice. That's the best I can do by way of explaining the magic of Hang Ah Alley.
Since the tea room was closed, we found another dim sum restaurant and did some serious over-ordering. My children are delicate, nervous eaters, but J is neither and ate the way I used to eat when presented with exotic fried and steamed tidbits involving shrimp, pork, and garishly colored sauces. It was fun to watch.
Those look like an alien life form, but were extremely tasty.
After lunch we tried to buy gifts for everyone we could think of at the cheap trinket shops. J took great care with his selections, and we examined many small green buddhas, swords, and tacky paper fans. He got a license plate with his name on it for himself, a black satin jewelry box for his sister, a pink jewelry box for Isabel, a dragon pendant for Owen, and a tiny creamer shaped like a cow for Amy. At one point he picked out a cute little bronze chicken and held it up with a triumphant expression on his face. I said, "You want to get that for Owen?"
He said, "Maybe for you?"
I almost burst into tears. Love my chicken.
Then we collected Owen from school and finally made it to the ice cream store.
An unexpectedly lovely day.
I love your chicken too.ReplyDelete
I'm glad you got a happy day in there. You can take me around SF next time I'm on your coast!
wow! have you ever considered writing for a living? (just kidding).ReplyDelete
the post was as special as the day must have been.
i secretly ride the cable cars myself when i visit san francisco, which used to be quite often, but i don't admit it to my jaded san francisco friends. you've given me the courage to come out. I love going up and down california street on those things. don't know why.
Love the custard tarts from that bakery in SF; no Chinese bakeries here in CT. Andrea Nguyen has become intrigued by the Portuguese/Chinese custard tart connection (http://www.asiandumplingtips.com/)ReplyDelete
Hope your mother gets better.
I am glad you had a good day! This was a reminder to me to get out and enjoy the city I love near. It's easy when you are dealing with stressful things to get tunnel vision.ReplyDelete
And I am sure your nephew had a fabulous day, how cool is that?
Its always fun to do that stuff with a new generation. In Cleveland, where I live and grew up, we have a Rapid transit system of trains that go downtown and it was always so fun to ride them when we were going to something special. I always try to work that into our trips downtown with our kids, I still like them too!!ReplyDelete
I came of age in SF. But I had to leave. Too many dead, too many ghosts. But if there's any place that's home for me, it's there.ReplyDelete
Ah, the bakeries in Chinatown and North Beach! Custard tarts from Golden Gate Bakery. Yes. And moon cakes from Eastern Bakery. And sacripantina cake from Stella Pastry. And focaccia from Liguria Bakery . . .
J will remember that day forever, and you will remember it every time you look at that chicken. I shall henceforth aspire to be such an awesome aunt.ReplyDelete
Yum, I love don tots! (The Chinese name for those egg custard tarts.) I have a recipe for them, but I'm too chicken to try it.ReplyDelete
تقوم الشركه بنقل الأثاث داخل شاحنات مغلقه لضمان اقصى حماية للأثاث اثناء عملية النقل , فالشركه لديها اسطول كبير من السيارات التى تضمن السرعه والجوده فى نقل الأثاث من والى جمع انحاء المملكه, والشركه ايضاً لديها طاقم من افضل الفنيين والعمال المتخصصين فى نقل الأثاث وتغليفه لحمايته الصدمات والتلف فالشركه هدفها الأول والأخير هو رضاء عملائهاReplyDelete
زهرة الشرقيه لنقل الاثاث بالدمام
مع شركة تركيب اثاث ايكيا بالدمام نقدم لكم جميع الخدمات المتعلقة باثاث ايكيا من فك وتركيب بافضل النتائج المبهرة فهى الافضل على الاطلاق
شركة تركيب اثاث ايكيا بالدمام
عندما نتحدث عن نقل العفش فنحن امام مهمه صعبه جدا على بعض الاشخاص لان بعض الاشخاص يمتلكون العفش الكثير ممما يحتاج الى تغليف وتعبيئه ونقل بشكل مثالى حتى لا يكون فيه خدوش او تلفيات او تكسير ومن هنا تظهر خدماتنا فى القيام بنقل عفش مثالى دون اى تعب او مجهود او تكاليف باهظه
الاستعانة بأصحاب الخبرات دائما ما يسهل الكثير من الأمور عن القيام بالأعمال المختلفة وخاصة في المجالات التي ترتبط بالمنزل والمعيشة وراحة أفراد المنزل، لذلك عندما يحين وقت الانتقال من المنزل لابد من التخطيط لهذه المرحلة جيداً وتجهيز المنزل بخطوات معينة و الاعتماد على أفضل شركات نقل عفش وهي شركة زهرة الشرقية لنقل العفش
تقديم خدمة نقل الأثاث بأفضل خدمة وأقل تكلفة وأسرع وقت وملائم للعملاء لتنفيذ عملية نقل الأثاث وتوفير المال والوقت للعملاء. جميع خدمات شركتنا بمعنى الخدمات الشاملة.
شركة نقل عفش بالاحساء